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Ulysses S. Grant

U.S. President (R) and Civil War general

Grant: "[I did not rejoice] at the downfall of [the South] who had fought so long and valiantly, and had suffered so much for a cause, though that cause was, I believe, one of the worst for which a people ever fought. [But] I do not question ... [their] sincerity."

Henry Ward Beecher: "Abhorring show, [Grant was] simple in manner, gentle in his intercourse, modest and even diffident in regard to his own personality."

Henry Ward Beecher: "[Grant] was ignorant of his own greatness."

Frederick Douglass [ca. 1868 CE]: "Many who approached him told me he was a silent man."

Steven J. Rubenzer: "Grant was an innocent. ... He was not like any other president."

Steven J. Rubenzer: "Unlike most presidents, Grant ... preferred simply to go his own way rather than be a leader."

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Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis

U.S. First Lady and fashion icon, married to John F. Kennedy

Onassis: "I always live in a dream world."

Onassis: "I never ... kept a journal. I thought, 'I want to live my life, not record it.'"

Onassis: "The White House, with the Kennedys living in it... It's like Camelot!"

Hillary Clinton: "Unpretentious elegance characterized everything she did."

[Hillary Clinton: "Should I turn myself over to a stylist?"]
Onassis: "Oh no! You have to be you. You'll end up wearing someone else's idea of who you are and how you should look. Concentrate instead on what's important to you."

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Jonathan Ive

Lead designer at Apple

Ive: "I think we are surrounded by multiple, multiple products that testify to companies who don't really care."

Ive: "I'm constantly haunted by thoughts of, 'Is it good enough? Is there any way we could have made it better?'"

Robert Brunner: "He is a consummate designer on all levels, especially around form, detail, materials and refinement."

Leander Kahney: "He's the nicest, politest guy you ever met and very softly spoken."

Clive Grinyer: "He hasn't got where he is because of his ego."

Neil Smith: "He is incredibly self-effacing."

[Steve Jobs' wife]: "Most people in Steve's life are replaceable. But not Jony."

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Joern Utzon

Architect of the Sydney Opera House

Utzon: "The most important thing to me is humility. My buildings should adapt to their surroundings, not impose themselves on the world."

Utzon: "[My architecture] is treating space like music."

Mogens Prip-Buus: "One day, Utzon came into the office pretending to be Frank Lloyd Wright."

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Thich Nhat Hanh

Thien Buddhist master

[When asked how do to walking meditation:]
Hanh: "Just pretend that you are the happiest person in the world."

Hanh: "During the [Vietnam] war we young Buddhists ... were able to understand the suffering of both sides. ... That is why we did not take a side even though the whole world took sides."

Hanh: "[During the war] we [young buddhists] tried to tell people our perception of the situation. ... We wanted to stop the fighting, but the bombs were so loud."

Sallie B. King: "[Hanh's] goal was peace and reconciliation, not one side winning over the other."

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Nero

Emperor of Rome

[Last words:]
Nero: "Qualis artifex pereo!"
(So great an artist, I die!)

Jürgen Malitz: "Augustus and Caesar had learned to feign interest in the theater and the circus. ... Nero did not need to feign interest."

Edward Gibbon: "Nero excelled ... in the elegant arts of music and poetry [and] we should not despise his persuits."

Napoleon Bonaparte: "The people loved Nero. ... There is a reason for this which [history] omits. ... Nero never burdened the ordinary people. But Tacitus says nothing of this. He [only] speaks of his crimes. ... We, as a result, feel that Tacitus is biased."

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Leni Riefenstahl

Nazi filmmaker

Riefenstahl: "I was a dreamy child."

Riefenstahl: "As long as I live, I will say yes to life."

Riefenstahl: "I naturally prefer and capture the beauty in life."

Riefenstahl: "Reality doesn't interest me."

Riefenstahl: "I [seek] a style in the realm of legend. Something that might allow me to give free rein to my juvenile sense of romanticism and the beautiful image."

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Brad Pitt

Actor, married to Angelina Jolie

Pitt: "I have a hard time with morals. All I know is what feels right. What's more important to me is being honest about who you are."

Pitt: "I trust actions. I don't put much trust in words."

Pitt: "My frustration with acting is that I can't do quite what music does. Music has its own language."

Pitt: "I go a little insane with [buying furniture]. It's my thing."

Pitt: "I've found that the best things always happen when you throw yourself into a situation and you don't know what you're doing. If you take too much control over it, it can become dank and moldy - no bubbles."

Pitt: "I am pretty much mush. ... I wish I could be tougher."

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Justin Timberlake

Singer and actor

Timberlake: "Every relationship I've been in, I've overwhelmed the girl. They just can't handle all the love."

[On being compared with Michael Jackson:]
Timberlake: "I feel very fortunate to be compared to somebody so incredible. Michael Jackson's an icon."

[On making hit music:]
Timberlake: "My biggest challenge was to make sure that the songs I did were who I am."

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David Beckham

Soccer player, married to Victoria Beckham

Beckham: "I love football. I love being in front of that crowd performing. I think that's where I feel safest, actually, believe it or not."

Beckham: "I'm a big fan of tattos. Each one has a meaning."

Beckham: "I've always loved clothes and liked to dress up."

Beckham: "I've never wanted to be a manager. It's not a passion of mine."

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Ryan Gosling

Actor

Gosling: "I have my own taste, and I just try and stick with that."

Gosling: "Show me [a man] that wouldn't give it all up for Emma Stone, and I'll show you a liar."

Emma Stone: "[I] really like hearing [Ryan Gosling's] viewpoint because I know that it's never going to be tainted. He's very much his own person."

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Audrey Hepburn

Actress

Hepburn: "I think life is all about ... children and flowers."

Hepburn: "I never think of myself as an icon. What is in other people's minds is not in my mind. I just do my thing."

Hepburn: "I've [always] followed my instincts and they've brought me nothing but blessings and good fortune and terribly kind people to work with."

Sophia Loren: "Audrey was meek, gentle and ethereal, understated both in her life and in her work. She walked among us with a light pace, as if she didn't want to be noticed."

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Elizabeth Taylor

Actress

Taylor: "I've always admitted that I'm ruled by my passions."

Taylor: "[Michael Jackson and I] had so much in common and we had such loving fun together."

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Nicole Kidman

Actress, was married to Tom Cruise

Kidman: "What interests me most is love. People who fall in love. Fall out of love. Hopefully we can survive, and that is what my films say."

Kidman: "I was a highly sensitive child."

Kidman: "I am really spontaneous."

Kidman: "I love the beauty of clothes. I collect antique clothes."

Kidman: "I have no sense of what's fashionable; I just know what I like to wear."

Kidman: "I like sticking to my own self."

Kidman: "[Being in love is] incredibly raw, incredibly dangerous and you're very much out at sea. You're exposed. You could drown."

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Sofia Coppola

Filmmaker and fashion icon

Coppola: "I'm superopinionated about what I do and don't like."

Coppola: "I think I'm always drawn to projects that help me understand something about myself."

Coppola: "I don't yell. ... I don't turn into a tyrant."

Marc Jacobs: "She's very feminine. ... She loves fashion and music and art and film, and she is able to combine them in a way that all seems [natural]. I'm sure she works quite hard, but it all seems effortless."

Marc Jacobs: "She doesn't have that gritty hunger to prove what she knows."

Zoe Cassavetes: "You want to protect her. She sees the world a certain way, and you don't want the world to let her down."

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Michael Jackson

Singer-songwriter

Jackson: "I sit there and say, 'Please don't call me up, I am too shy.' But once I get up there [on stage], I take control of myself. Being onstage is magic. There's nothing like it."

Jackson: "I'm crazy about Steven Spielberg."

Jackson: "[Diana] was my type for sure, and I don't like most girls."

Elton John: "He is a very kind person."

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Prince

Singer-songwriter

Prince: "You gotta live life before you can really talk too much about it."

Prince: "I don't live in a prison. I am not afraid of anything. I haven't built any walls around myself."

Prince: "[I want to be able to] walk around and be me. That's all I want to be, that's all I ever tried to be."

Mick Jagger: "I think Prince is a great artist. ... Prince has been overlooked. ... I've seen great performances by Prince. He's outperformed almost everyone. I'd rate him at the top."

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Bob Dylan

Singer-songwriter

[Asked about the meaning of his songs:]
Dylan: "I just write them. There isn't any big message."

Dylan: "You can't be wise and in love at the same time."

Dylan: "I don't know if I call myself a poet or not. ... It's more of a visual type of thing for me. I could picture the color of the song."

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Paul McCartney

Singer-songwriter

[On his songwriting:]
McCartney: "I don't ever try to make a serious social comment. ... It's just a song."

McCartney: "How I wrote depended on my mood. The only way I would be sort of biting ... like [John Lennon] was if I was in a bad mood!"

Mick Jagger: "Paul is very nice and easy to get on with - didn't have [John Lennon's] acerbic side."

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David Bowie

Singer-songwriter

Bowie: "My music [expresses how I feel] for me. There, in the chords and melodies, is everything I want to say. The words just jolly it along."

Bowie: "I had to resign myself, many years ago, that I'm not too articulate when it comes to explaining how I feel about things."

Bowie: "[My music has] always been my way of expressing what for me is inexpressible by any other means."

Lady Gaga: "How I love David Bowie!"

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Lady Gaga

Singer-songwriter

Gaga: "You have to be unique and different and shine in your own way."

Gaga: "I try to not focus on what people expect from me."

Gaga: "I'm half living my life between reality and fantasy at all times."

Gaga: "Every bit of me is devoted to love and art."

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Eminem

Rapper

Eminem: "Music was always the outlet for me to get through whatever I was going through at the time. ... It's always been therapy for me. ... This is how I'm feeling right now."

Eminem: "I can go back and listen to each song off of each record and remember ... exactly how I was feeling."

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Frank Ocean

Singer-songwriter

Ocean: "When I'm trying to make a song ... I'm trying to make a photograph out of something you can never see."

Ocean: "My aim is to make something that represents where I am at that time."

Ocean: "It's pretty rad to hear Beyonce sing a song of yours or to hear [Jay-Z] rhyme over and be on a song that you're on."

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Diana

Princess of Wales, was married to Prince Charles, mother of William and Harry

Diana: "I lead from the heart, not the head."

Diana: "I don't go by a rule book."

Prince William: "She loved dancing so much. It was a real way that she got through life - by dancing. ... It was a big release for her."

Michael Jackson: "She was very kind, very loving, very sweet."

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Marilyn Monroe

Actress

Monroe: "I have too many fantasies to be a housewife. I guess I am a fantasy."

Monroe: "I restore myself when I'm alone."

[Asked if she considered herself a sex symbol:]
Monroe: "A sex symbol becomes a thing. I'd just hate to be a thing."

Mick Jagger: "I'm not sure why, but I identify with her."

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Britney Spears

Singer

Spears: "I don't like defining myself. I just am."

Spears: "Justin Timberlake just understands. I get him, and he gets me."

The Mirror: "[When performing, Britney demands a] framed photo of ... Princess Diana [backstage]. ... Diana [is] in many ways her inspiration."

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Paris Hilton

Television personality

Hilton: "I'm very easy to get along with."

Hilton: "When I was little I looked up to Princess Diana."

[Asked what she personifies:]
Hilton: "Fashion, fun, excitement. ... I am really passionate."

[Larry King: "[When you were in jail] did you hear a lot about what people were saying on the outside?"]
Hilton: "No. I just really wanted to focus on myself. I didn't want to hear all the gossip and things."

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Beyonce

Singer, married to Jay-Z

Beyonce: "There's definitely a dangerous feeling when you're in love - it's giving your heart to someone else and knowing that they have control over your feelings."

Beyonce: "The second I [get] on the stage, I just [open] up and I [become] this other person."

Beyonce: "I'm not a competitive person that ... thinks about other people and how I can compete with them."

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Rihanna

Singer

[On cutting her hair short:]
Rihanna: "The label didn't want me to do this look. I don't care who likes it - this is me."

Rihanna: "The hardest thing for me is to say no."

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Christina Aguilera

Singer

Aguilera: "I've never watched an entire episode of 'American Idol.' It's too mean."

Aguilera: "I stray away from the formulaic, the formatted."

Aguilera: "I think you can really gauge my state of mind by listening to my albums."

Aguilera: "I'm not a judgmental person."

Aguilera: "It's so easy to get bulldozed [by others]."

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Dita von Teese

Burlesque dancer and model, was married to Marilyn Manson

Von Teese: "[A common misperception about me is] that I can't possibly be shy and do what I do. [I] have confidence about certain things and not about others."

Von Teese: "I'd rather be naked in a room of 300 people than talking in front of them."

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Mick Jagger

(Rolling Stones)

Jagger: "In the beginning Brian ran the band. He really wanted to be called the leader of the band. I didn't particularly want to be the leader. There wasn't a leader."

Jagger: "[John Lennon] was educated and very smart and cynical and funny. ... [But] you always knew with John, you're gonna be on the end of a lot of sarcastic remarks that you weren't always in the mood for."

Jagger: "I was never crazy about [Kurt Cobain and] Nirvana - too angst-ridden for me."

L'Wren Scott: "Mick really has his own style, and he is quite opinionated about how he wants to look."

Rolling Stone Magazine: "[Mick is] difficult [to] interview, not only because of his natural reserve and lack of interest in the past but also because he communicates as much with his ... body ... as he does verbally: Half of what he says never makes it to the page."

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Keith Richards

(Rolling Stones)

Richards: "I don't think I'm cool. It's other people that tell me I'm cool. I'm just being who I am."

Richards: "Just be yourself is all I can say. ... If you've gotta think about being cool, you ain't cool."

Richards: "For myself and Mick [songwriting is] a matter of, almost, necessity."

Richards: "Mick and I are still great friends and still want to work together. Both of us know things about each other - and are still finding out. There is no final judgment on one or the other."

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David Gilmour

(Pink Floyd)

Gilmour: "I don't find it easy to express my feelings in words."

Gilmour: "I thought [Roger Waters'] songs were very wordy and that ... the music [that he wrote] became a mere vehicle for lyrics, and not a very inspiring one."

[Interviewer: "How did Roger Waters become the leader of Pink Floyd?"]
Gilmour: "He just wanted to be. He would say, 'I think you should say that I'm the leader.' We'd say, 'Oh come on, who gives a shit? It's a band, you know?'"

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Andrew Bird

Singer-songwriter

Bird: "[Before performing] I walk around the [theater] and imagine ... what it's like to sit in the audience. I have to go into the lobby; I have to get a sense of the experience."

Bird: "I find it boring [when] lyrics are a bit dark and brooding."

Bird: "I got out of ... classical [music because I wanted] a more comfortable, enjoyable, social-music atmosphere."

[On Bob Dylan being booed for using an electric guitar at an acustic festival:]
Bird: "Dylan just reminded us to not get too uptight."

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Drew Barrymore

Actress

Barrymore: "Love is the hardest habit to break, and the most difficult to satisfy."

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Leona Lewis

Singer

Lewis: "I'm not a loud, extravagant person ... I don't show off or boast."

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John Travolta

Actor

Travolta: "All I can control is my response to input. If you come around me and tell me bad news all the time, I can say, 'You know what? I don't want to hear it.'"

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Zac Efron

Actor, dated Vanessa Hudgens

Efron: "I'll never try to put on a fake image. I'm just Zac."

Efron: "I don't judge anyone and I never have."

Efron: "Every day is a new experience and I take it as it comes."

Efron: "[Nicole Kidman] is fun to work with. ... [When we were acting together] we went with the moment."

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Skrillex

Singer-songwriter

Skrillex: "The key moments in a performance [are] when you're singing [and] going back to the place where you wrote those lyrics. ... You're actually feeling [where it came from]."

Skrillex: "I wouldn't say I'm a heavy guy. I just feel what I feel."

Skrillex: "I never try to overthink things."

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Trent Reznor

(Nine Inch Nails)

Reznor: "I am [sometimes] written off as aloof or stand-offish when I'm [really] shy and don't know what to say."

Reznor: "When I did ['Head Like a Hole'] that was how I felt in my head. When I did 'Downward Spiral' that is where I was for that. I try not to be too concerned about ... what [people] are expecting from me."

[Interviewer: "What is the significance of the name 'Nine Inch Nails?'"]
Reznor: "[It] just kinda popped into my head. Two weeks later I still liked it, so we just went with it. As far as any significance, I just like it because it looked good in print."

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Prince Harry

Prince of Wales, son of Charles and Diana, brother of William

Harry: "Wherever you are, different places, different people - you've just got to roll with it."

[On visiting Britain's Caribbean dominions along with Elizabeth II:]
Harry: "It tripped me up because to me, she is just granny, but to all these countries, she is the queen."

NBC News: "William [is] dutiful [and] proper [while] Harry [is] volatile and carefree."

Diana: "Harry's the naughty one, just like me."

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Prince Frederik

Crown Prince of Denmark, married to Mary

Frederik: "I often choose to perceive the light of a new day as the rebirth of the untouched, the inexperienced and the innocent."

Frederik: "It is wonderful to pretend that everything begins anew each day."

[Asked about being an elite soldier, a marathon runner, a parachutist, and more:]
Frederik: "It was my own will to sort of shape [my life] that way, being physically active and challenging yourself in that sense. ... That's sort of my destiny."

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Enya

Singer-songwriter

Enya: "I am really a very shy person. If I [do publicity], it is because of the music, not because I want to be seen."

Enya: "My core beliefs revolve around the idea that ... we should live and let live."

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Liv Tyler

Actress

Tyler: "There is no definition of beauty, but when you can see someone's spirit coming through, something unexplainable, that's beautiful to me."

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Pamela Anderson

Actress

Anderson: "Tattoos are like stories - they're symbolic of the important moments in your life. Sitting down, talking about where you got each tattoo and what it symbolizes, is really beautiful."

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Michael Fordham

Child psychiatrist, student of Jung

Fordham: "For many years I could not tolerate praise but [at the age of 88] I have at last come to recognize that it is often genuine."

Fordham: "I am the only Jungian interested in children. ... I tried to interest [Jung in child psychology], but my efforts never had much success."

Fordham: "[Jung once] made me very angry: A burglar had invaded [our house] and had hit [my wife] on the head with a metal instrument. ... When I told Jung about the incident he started to talk about how such people sometimes brought a message. ... I think he saw how angry I was for he shut up."